Would you?

Would you still love your partner if they were to suffer from parkinson? alzheimer? anxiety disorders? huntington disease? schizophrenia?

All these disease, up till today aint much of a cure available out there. They are neurological disorders except for anxiety disorders. Damages to the neurological part of our bodies has no healing power of them. It's not like some movie like wolverine who can regenerate damaged body parts.

He or she may suffer from parkinson, slowly as time passes by, their severeness increases. They may start to be shaky with pencils and fine motor skills. But wait, look to the future in 20 years time, they cant even poop or change their cloths themselves. Would you bear with those hardships for the future to come?

We dont choose who we fall in love with, and often it never happens the way we want it either. To fall in love can be so easy sometimes even without you realizing it, but falling out of it is yet again another story. Often people say the same train doesnt come twice and truly enough it doesnt. We may fall for this particular person and hey, they could be last person you ever fall so hard for. I believe so it's never easy to fall out. I have been there myself. It is just so ever easy to fall for her yet falling out of it takes gezillion years.

Sayings like "If you really love that person, you should let them go" but do think again, your letting away someone you fell so hard for, just like that, to walk past your life. Is walking away worth while? or taking a bloody step of effort to chase after them? At times, I would regret not giving perhaps another extra effort of the 100% to the girl whom i once loved so deeply. I do regret just watching her slipped away but that was past.

In uni, I hear tons and tons of complains and debate over single or being in a relationship is better. The same cycles goes round and round. Single people often complains how miserable and lonely it is to be alone and watch other couples being intimate. On the other hand, couples often complain to their friends how troublesome it is a relationship is, endless arguments, giving and taking, and the list does goes on.

How hard is giving a little more effort in making your partner happy? If he or she is insecure, do give them a little more attention! and if they are miserable, give them a little more love. If they are sad, pamper them a little more. If they are lonely, spend a little more time with them. This thing has been so fragile and brittle so easily broken. Just give a little more and that's all it takes. Acceptance of who they are, be it clumsy, or sometimes they could be silly, or even being a weird out of the normal and a thousand and one things that you may find why you fell for them in the first place.

But do you love her because she is beautiful or she is beautiful because you love her?

Last but not least, congratulations to Prince William & Ms. Catherine Middleton who's now a princess :) May you guys have a blessed marriage. Whole fb fed was flooded over these two darn royal wedding -__-